How Should I Prepare For School?

There’s a lot you can do in the weeks before to get ready for the big day. But try to keep your efforts low-key. If you make too big a deal out of this milestone, your child may end up being more worried than excited. Here are some ideas to keep the focus on fun.

Use pretend play to explore the idea of preschool. Take turns being the parent, child, and teacher. Act out common daily routines, such as saying good-bye to mommy and/or daddy, taking off your coat, singing songs, reading stories, having Circle Time, playing outside, and taking naps. Reassure your child that preschool is a good place where she will have fun and learn. Answer her questions patiently. This helps children feel more in control which reduces their anxiety.

Read books about preschool. There are many books about going to preschool available from the library or our book club.  Choose several to share with your child over the summer before school starts. Talk about the story and how the characters are feeling. Ask how your child is feeling.

Make a game out of practicing self-help skills. These skills include unzipping her coat, hanging her coat on a hook, putting on her backpack, fastening her shoes. For example, you might want to have a “race” with your child to see how quickly she can put on her shoes. When you play school together, you can give your child the chance to practice taking off her coat, zipping her backpack closed, and sitting “criss-cross applesauce.” Pack up lunch one day before school starts and have a picnic together. This will give her the chance to practice unzipping her lunch box and unwrapping her sandwich—important skills for the first day!

Play at your new preschool. Visit your child’s preschool together. Ask when you can tour the school with your child. Attend a camp or Preschool Open Play. These visits increase your child’s comfort with and confidence in this new setting.

Learning Through Play

According to the Early Years Institute, playing is CRITICAL to brain development.  Children gain all the skills they need physically, socially, cognitively, emotionally, and creatively through play.

When children play they are:  building imagination, developing language and reading skills, strengthening physical skills, enhancing self esteem, building math and science skills, forming friendships and social skills, gaining self control, solving problems, learning how to think, discovering their world, and getting ready for success in school, work, and life!

“Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning.” – Fred Rogers

Useful Resources

Family Fun

Between work, school, birthday parties, sports, and all the various other things in life, time is very limited!   Find time throughout your week, whether it’s a few hours each Sunday, the evening bedtime ritual, or breakfast and playtime before school, and spend time as a family.  Protect this time with your kids!  Kids who grow up in happy, loving households, with secure connections to their parents do a much better time adjusting to the school environment, following teacher’s directions, respecting teachers and role models, and forming friendships with classmates.  Look at the links on the right for great ideas to make your family time fun!

Positive Parenting

Positive parenting and positive discipline are techniques that the Explorers Adventure School in order to keep a warm environment, redirect the child, and teach appropriate behavior. These techniques build on your child’s wish to please, guaranteeing a better-behaved, happy child, and less stressed and angry parents.

The techniques work by allowing parents and teachers to create good relationships with children by showing love and care, emphasizing the things that the child has done well, and by the parent or teacher serving as a good example.  Children want to follow a positive role model.  In positive parent/guidance/discipline, parents praise the behavior they want to see, avoid harsh punishments, have clear limits that are fair and age appropriate, and stick to their word.  Check out our resources on positive parenting to the right and give it a try in your home!

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